must start anywhere. one day i asked me "love or happiness?" then i answered happiness.
loving something is good but it doesn't always bring happiness, love connected to other things and everything may not good. this may be saddening to opposite happiness.

happines is not contain sadness. true happiness that doesn't have any mean or value isn't attractive for some people.
or question like "to love somebody or loving by somebody?" is better true
my answer loving by somebody
i think about strange things how many people have asked yourself till now
at midnight 31 december i'll think again while drinking beer